Below are some useful resources about perinatal mental health and information for partners and family members.
Self-care / self-help resources
- Mind: Self-care tips for pregnancy and after having a baby (opens in a new tab)
- Mind: General self-care tips (opens in a new tab)
- The Mind website also has a lot of excellent resources on all of the major mental health problems, including self-care tips specific to each diagnosis.
- Maternal Mental health Alliance: Mental health and Wellbeing tips for during and after pregnancy (opens in a new tab)
- Tommy’s: Wellbeing Tips in pregnancy (opens in a new tab)
- Perinatal positivity: a selection of links on resources that may help with self-care (opens in a new tab)
Mindfulness and grounding techniques
Podcasts
- Motherkind (opens in a new tab) - Zoe Blaskey - brings you some of the best wellbeing teachers in the world to help you find your calm, happy place in the hectic pace of modern mum life.
- We Can Do Hard Things (opens in a new tab) - Hosted by Untamed author Glennon Doyle, along with her wife Abby Wambach and sister Amanda Doyle, We Can Do Hard Things (the title a nod to Doyle’s personal mantra) focuses on life’s difficulties and ways to deal with them.
- Good inside (opens in a new tab) - Podcast from a clinical psychologist on parent advice while also prioritising parental mental health and wellbeing.
- Perinatal mental health podcasts (opens in a new tab)
- https://wellmindperinatal.com/momandmindpodcast/ (opens in a new tab)
- https://therapyforblackgirls.com/podcast/ (opens in a new tab)
Attachment and bonding
- Attachment and bonding during pregnancy: information and advice (opens in a new tab)
- Developing a relationship with your baby: information and advice (opens in a new tab)
- Spending time with your baby: information and advice (opens in a new tab)
- https://www.tommys.org/pregnancy-information/after-birth/bonding-your-baby (opens in a new tab)
- Unicef (opens in a new tab) - A range of resources on building close loving relationships between parents and babies.
Helplines and other forms of direct support
- PANDAS Foundation UK (opens in a new tab) - Support and advice for any parent who is experiencing a perinatal mental illness.
Telephone: 0843 2898 401
Email: PANDAS Foundation - https://www.birthtraumaassociation.org/get-help-now (opens in a new tab)
- https://www.tommys.org/about-us/our-people/tommys-midwives (opens in a new tab)
- https://pregnancysicknesssupport.org.uk/ (opens in a new tab)
- breastfeedingnetwork.org.uk (opens in a new tab) - 0300 100 0212 - Support and information about breastfeeding and perinatal mental health.
- Find a variety of national and local mental health helplines and other sources of direct support (opens in a new tab)
Information and support
- Maternal Mental Health Alliance (opens in a new tab) is a UK charity dedicated to ensuring women and families affected by perinatal mental problems have access to high-quality comprehensive care and support. This webpage lists a number of useful groups and self-help resources for mental health and wellbeing.
- Cambridgeshire Child and Family Centres (opens in a new tab) offer groups, events, activities, courses and support for families with children aged 0-19.
- Mind (opens in a new tab) offer a range of services, courses and support groups across Peterborough, Cambridgeshire and South Lincolnshire to support women aged over 18.
- Keep Your Head (opens in a new tab) contains a wealth of information on mental health services, voluntary sector and local authority organisations.
- https://www.heartsandmindspartnership.org/parents/additional-services (opens in a new tab) - A list of other organisations and resources providing information and support on a range of topics that may be related to perinatal mental health difficulties, such as baby loss.
- https://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/types-of-mental-health-problems/postnatal-depression-and-perinatal-mental-health/useful-contacts/ (opens in a new tab) - A list of contacts for organisations that support with topics either directly or indirectly related to perinatal mental health problems.
- https://supportmecic.com/ (opens in a new tab) - Online support for families across the UK, free to those who are on low incomes, who are Black or Asian, and/or who speak English as a second language.
Specifically for loved ones of parents experiencing mental health difficulties
- Mind - How to help someone who's struggling in pregnancy, or after having a new baby (opens in a new tab) . The Mind website also has a lot of information on perinatal mental health problems (opens in a new tab) if you wish to educate yourself on what your loved one may be going through (although everyone’s experience is unique).
- Postpartum Psychosis - A guide for partners (opens in a new tab)
- Depression and low mood - A guide for partners (opens in a new tab)
- Action on Postpartum Psychosis (opens in a new tab) - with the help of those who have been through Postpartum Psychosis, APP have produced a free Postpartum Psychosis Insider Guide for Partners. Use this link to get the free guide and access more in-depth information to read in Conjunction with the guide.
- Making Space, Cambridgeshire and Peterborough Carer Support Service (opens in a new tab) offers support to people caring for a family member or loved one with a mental health condition.
Resources for dads’mental health (some may be inclusive of other non-gestational parents, and/or gestational dads)
- Mind: Can fathers and partners get postnatal depression? (opens in a new tab)
- https://changemh.org/resources/fathers-and-mental-health/ (opens in a new tab)
- Mental Health Foundation - Becoming Dad: a guide for new fathers (opens in a new tab)
- The Fatherhood Institute (opens in a new tab) - The UK’s fatherhood think-and-do tank.
- PANDAS Foundation (opens in a new tab) - Amongst other support, offers closed Facebook groups for Dads.
Support for gay and lesbian parents
- Pink Parents (opens in a new tab) - Offers support for gay and lesbian parents.
Making Space, Cambridgeshire and Peterborough Carer Support Service
Making Space, Cambridgeshire and Peterborough Carer Support Service offers support to people caring for a family member or loved one with a mental health condition.
They can offer:
- One to one support with a named support worker
- Carer led organisation, with carers needs put first
- Carer led groups across the county
- Information sessions
- Signposting to other services, organisations and charities
- Information on mental health conditions
You can contact them to find out more:
Telephone: 01480 211006
Email Making Space, Cambridge and Peterborough referrals
Making Space - Cambridgeshire and Peterborough Carer Support Service (opens in a new tab)
Parenting together support programme
Parenting Together Support Programme offers help to parents who feel that stress and conflict in their relationship is affecting the family. Support takes the form of one-to-one or group sessions delivered by experienced facilitators. Programmes are open to all eligible parents, mothers and fathers and same-sex parents. For couples who are together in a relationship or those who are separated. Courses are free and run locally. To find out more please visit the Tavistock relationships website (opens in a new tab) (opens in a new tab)