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Have you ever made a New Year’s resolution or decided to make a change? If so, what are your experiences of successes and failures? Many people have unrealistic expectations of themselves which can then lead to failure, almost before they have started. Unrealistic goals will generate negative feelings and responses which could prevent future success. If you feel negative about something you have or have not done, examine the feelings and trace them back to the goals you set.
Think about what contributed to you being successful or what perhaps led to you not being successful and write these in the boxes below.
Non-urgent advice: What contributed to your successes?
Write down the things that contributed your successes:
Non-urgent advice: What contributed to your previous failures?
Write down the things that contributed to your previous failures:
Question
Having completed this activity, is there anything from your previous experiences that could help you with your weight loss attempt?
Non-urgent advice: Previous experiences
Write about your previous experiences:
Making goals and reviewing them on a regular basis is a useful way of changing behaviour. We want you to focus now on goals around your behaviours associated with eating and activity habits.
Effective goal setting
Setting effective goals is an important way to maintain motivation when it comes to changing your behaviour. The goals you wish to set yourself are likely to be very personal to you. However, to ensure that your goal setting is effective, it is recommended that you consider the following actions when setting your goals and make sure they are SMART goals:
Specific
Just saying that “I will exercise more” is not helpful. Be as specific as possible with your goal setting, such as “I will walk for 20 minutes, three times a week”. When losing weight, try to focus on your eating and physical activity plans, instead of what the scales are saying.
Measurable
Monitor and keep records of your activity and eating via your food and activity diaries. Doing so will increase your awareness of certain habits / routines that you may wish to alter or eliminate.
Achievable / Attitude
Before setting any goals, it is important that you make them achievable and in line with your future realistic hopes. Be positive about the changes you wish to make and focus on the potential benefits from making these changes. Loss of motivation can occur when too much attention is paid to the problems, barriers and difficulties to changing behaviour. Try to focus on finding solutions and ways to cope with these barriers and problems. During tough times, look back over the records you have kept and congratulate yourself on your progress so far. Start afresh and stay positive.
Realistic
Be realistic about what you want to achieve, in line with your best hopes. Try not to set too many goals at once – three to five is realistic for most people, taking into account that each one can be a small step. Set reasonable targets and remember these will need to be adjusted from time to time as barriers outside of your control will influence your behaviour.
Time Phased
It is important that you give yourself a period of time in which to achieve this goal
For example, a goal that is NOT SMART would be: I am going to lose weight in the New Year. However, a SMART goal would be: I am going to lose 3kg in four weeks by following a low fat diet and in order to do this, I will use leaner meats in cooking, and use more vegetables and pulses.
By doing this, the goal is specific and measurable by the amount of weight loss and timely in that you are planning to do this within the four weeks.
What would I like to be different about my life with regard to my weight?
Non-urgent advice: Previous experiences
Write about your previous experiences:
What steps do you need to put in place in order to make your life different?
Questions to ask yourself with some examples of answers:
- The main reasons I want to change are:
- To try and reduce my breathlessness
- To try and reduce my breathlessness
- One of the changes I am prepared to make is:
- Reduce high sugar/high fat foods to twice a week, from everyday
- Reduce high sugar/high fat foods to twice a week, from everyday
- The steps I will take to implement the change are:
- Change my online supermarket order, choose healthier snacks e.g. piece of fruit
- Change my online supermarket order, choose healthier snacks e.g. piece of fruit
- I will start making the change:
- Tomorrow
- Tomorrow
- I will ask for help from:
- My partner
- My partner
- I will ask them to:
- Praise me for making so much effort to change my diet, make the same change if they are willing!
- Praise me for making so much effort to change my diet, make the same change if they are willing!
- Situations that might make change difficult:
- Going out with friends
- Going out with friends
- My plans for coping with difficult situations are:
- To practise saying no, warn friends
- To practise saying no, warn friends
- I will judge my success by:
- Feeling better, more in control of my eating, eating healthier foods, reduction in cholesterol, weight loss
- Feeling better, more in control of my eating, eating healthier foods, reduction in cholesterol, weight loss
- When I achieve the change, I will tell myself:
- How well I am doing with my plan
- How well I am doing with my plan
- I will reward myself for being successful with:
- Some special bath oils, my favourite magazine or tickets to a concert or football match
Adapted with kind permission from the Obesity Clinic.
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